Long Story Short: Being Cheated Isn't An Insult

Here's the thing my chickpeas: it says nothing about me and everything about the dude. I did nothing but be trusting and kind to a man who abused that trust and pulled me along for a year. I love The Darkness and I do believe in a thing called love. And I won't stop believing people are good people until they prove me wrong. 

You babes need to stop using failed men as insults to other babes, as if failed men mean shit after they've proved themselves as fuckbois. If you want to insult me, fine, but understand that being played isn't an insult, saying he never loved me is hurtful but not a representation of who I am in any way. You can send me piles upon piles of people I thought were my friends talking nonsense about me saying you should have hit me more, Regina, but that again is a representation of them and yourself and not me. Be smart, use something real, use something that is wrong with me to insult me, not the shitty actions of failed people.

These days I don't need the validation of that dude. I hope this dude finds peace and I hope women start seeing him for what he is. Yeah he's built and talks smooth as fuck, and you might think these kinds of guys can be changed. I'm really sorry, you might be the most amazing woman on the planet but these kinds of guys are always looking for someone better, and anyone still hanging around will be turned inside out because they're just pawns in a game. These guys are bored, they need someone to talk themselves up to. They're not an insult to you, if you end up in their game and feel ashamed that you were tricked, don't! It happens to the best of us, and if anything shows you you go into things with the best idea of people. Keep your heart open, and never use failed men as an insult.

Their failure, is not your success.